Hi Tonya, Yesterday our local newspaper had this article on grief and coping. I hope it helps.

http://www.duluthsuperior.com/mld/duluthtribune/2005/12/11/living/13342602.htm

Take care


Mark, 21 Year survivor, SCC right tonsil, 3 nodes positive, one with extra-capsular spread. I never asked what stage (would have scared me anyway) Right side tonsillectomy, radical neck dissection right side, maximum radiation to both sides, no chemo, no PEG, age 40 when diagnosed.