I have gained much information from reading postings & have only posted myself a few times. I just want to say how very impressed I am with the way everyone handled Mike's question. He has the information he needs & tact & respect was used to protect other members. Very thoughtfully done. I continue to be amazed by the human-ness & compassion of this group. If I ever have to face my dear husband's death, I will decide how much information I want/need. Right now, when he has just finished treatment & is currently "cancer free" is not the time for me to focus on death from this horrible disease. Thank you all for your maturity & caring.