Maybe you're the one needs the therapy;-) It wasn't him that created the initial post. Nothing to be embarrassed about. My wife had a nervous breakdown in my post Tx phase. I never postulated that he was a smoker or drinker (or old even), just an attempt to reach out to those who do indulge, that it is indeed very risky behavior.

I have just passed 2 year mark and I spend very little time thinking about the grim reaper any more (and I was one of those people with the 38% 5 year survival odds). My wife is fully recovered and we are moving on with our live's. Indeed there is life after cancer!