I've tried, over time, to get past the dismal statistical prognosis for stage IV tonsil cancer. Almost two years out from my husband's treatment, I thought I had put the numbers behind me. But he is just now starting to look at some of the web sites where you can find the numbers. I think that he had too much to deal with before. Anyway, he is happy to have made it to almost the two year mark (because I have told him that is a good place to be) but also seeing the stats quoted for 5-year survival rates... 20 - 40% survival for stage IV. I'm having trouble giving him a positive spin. Don't quite know what I am asking for. Guess I'm just looking for some wisdom from some seasoned soldiers in this battle.

Best,
Anita