Charm,
That is just awful news. Is it possible to get a second opinion or are you already in a major cancer center and trust the doctors? In the US, they will often just fax records and films for a second opinion. You don't actually have to go there unless they think they can do something for you. If hospice is available, I strongly recommend you call them. They will be there to help with everything.

Take care,
Eileen


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Aug 1997 unknown primary, Stage III
mets to 1 lymph node in neck; rt ND, 36 XRT rad
Aug 2001 tiny tumor on larynx, Stage I total laryngectomy; left ND
June 5, 2010 dx early stage breast cancer
June 9, 2011 SCC 1.5 cm hypo pharynx, 70% P-16 positive, no mets, Stage I