Charm
I'm sorry that your news is so hard, I take it that your husband is at a major head and neck cancer center and that a 2nd opinion is also not an option. My only advice is for you to get support for YOU from the hospice nurse to try and take away some of the fear and worries about the future..
Walk in the Sunshine when you can
love and hugs
Helen


SCC Base of tongue, (TISN0M0) laser surgery, 10/01 and 05/03 no clear margins. Radial free flap graft to tonsil pillar, partial glossectomy, left neck dissection 08/04