Momma- your husband could be mine! I was shocked to read your husband wouldn't open his cards-neither would mine I thought he was the only guy like that. He has over 75 cards I open them and tell him who they are from and he has a blank stare. I finally got it out of him -that the cards remind hin he has cancer and he is sick!!! I said you are. I told my friends he is still in denial. This has been a long journey for us both. It is good to hear that we are not the only ones going through this. when I read the board I say to myself thank God he is not the only one acting that way or doing that. It helps me alot. So thanks to all of you for sharing your journey and putting my mind at ease.

LJ