My husband is going into his 6th week now and yesterday when he was home for a visit said. "I still cant believe this is happening to me" What do you say to a man who has had a near death experience, many complications, not to mention the chemo and his reaction to it (states he does not know if he can do it) and today is returning to a lodge where cancer patients stay while getting treatment????? Any suggestions. He actually took me by surprise with this statement. Remaining positive... Carol...