Hi,
Bob has been finished with radiation txs since Oct 7 (35 total) We have appts this week with the oncologist/surgeon & the radiation oncologist. I know this sounds stupid, but I am feeling overwhelmed/confused. What sort of questions should we be asking? What will they do, tell us, etc? I really want them to tell us that the cancer is gone, the radiation worked & have a nice life. I know it won't work that way. When/Will they be able to tell us if the cancer at the base of Bob's tongue was totally destroyed by the radiation? Will our lives now consist of waiting for scan results?

For so long I was so focused on how to care for Bob that I couldn't think past today. Now that radiation is finished & he is showing signs of improvement I need to know what's next?

I's midnight so maybe I'm just tired. Thanks for any help/suggestions.