My heart goes out to you both. Its not an esy journey but you will make it. The Cisplatin made my husband very nausea the first time and also the violent vomiting. Infact he lost 14 lbs the first week!.. He then tried E-mend for the nausea and it really helped. Also to keep hydrated that is so important. I would also strongly suggest a peg-tube. It really saved my husband. Wish we would of done it in the very beginning instead of 4weeks later. That is what they want my husband to do in June go on the pump for one week each month for 3 months. This would be his second round of chemo. PLease keep me posted. YOu are in my prayers.