Swati

Not going to tell you what to do, but as some others have stated hospice is a great source. They will help you cope as much as your father. My dad had bladder cancer which keep coming back, I would pray not now, not now Lord I need him now. In 2003 the Dr. told us 6 months, and a very painful 6 months ahead, my prayers changed. I realized I was praying for me, not for what was best for my dad. Don't get me wrong it was pure HELL, but I prayed no more pain plain and simple no more. My prayers were answered, dad pasted 2 months after the Dr. gave us the 6 months. He woke me up 2 days before by taking the his loved ones that had gone on before, it would have freaked me out, but the hospice people had told me this could happen, so we knew some signs to look for. We gathered around him, let him know it was ok, let go we would be ok he had worked so long and so in tune with what he believed we wanted, that he had to hear this before he would let go. It's so-----hard but I would not change a thing. I had stage IV oral cancer and only hope when my time comes I will leave as he did. Hospice is great for many reasons. God bless you and your family, you will be in my prayers


Joan