Swati,
It must be so hard to know which way to go at this point. I know what we have been thru and I am not sure how much more Dan was do as far as invasive surgerys and treatments if there was no sure answer. Know that you and your family are in my prayers and I agree with Darrell that God definitely has a plan for us all. It doesn't mean that I don't get very scared and sad, but He always helps me during the darkest times.
Take care and God bless,
Debbie


Debbie - Caregiver for husband, Dan, diagnosed with tongue cancer 7/03. Partial gloss., mod. neck dissections, graft. Recurrence neck tumor 12/03. Radical left neck dissection 12/24/03-unable to get all the tumor. 8 weeks chemo/rad beginning 1/12/04.