I agree with so many other posters about this. The wait is absolutely the worst. Not having the information, or the experience makes you feel powerless. Even when I was sick during chemo and tired from the radiation, I felt like I had a plan, and I was following that plan.

Every day is a step forward...

DX on 05/01/06 with SCC of right tongue. 05/11/06 surgery-tumor 1.2cm & 4 cm clear margins & parital glos. & neck dissection with removal of 34 nodes/1 positive at 4mm)T1N1MO
35 IGRT & 3 cycles of chemo (1 cisplatin & 2 carbo-complete on 8/9/06.