Debra, Yep, your world and his, have[temporarily]fallen apart.And you have heard that "When the going gets tough_______]".Please Keep in mind that on the one hand, your issues are the same because you are a team - but they are also very different. He's dealing with this on a basic survival level and you are dealing with his survival and everything else. You are4 gonna have to be VERY strong, Lady. Can you do it? Amy