Helen
Oh My girl,you have really been thrown in at the deep end haven`t you.
Kind of reminds me of " If it were not for bad luck I would have no luck at all".
You know what Helen ? you are one of the strongest, kindest, women I know. You have been so generous with your time to others on this board and you can bet that if good wishes can make a difference you will find your way through all this.
Our very best wishes for you and your Mum.
Take Care
Marica