Karen
STOP... you are doing what we all do here.. actually we all do it well... YOU are looking for a situation or a person to blame.. you know it doesn't work like that.. If there was one easy answer none of us would be in this sh#t...
try to go over it all.. if they were worried about you.. you would not have to wait 3 months.. and Don's cancer no-way are you to blame... better to blame aliens than yourself...
love hugs and box of plates
Helen


SCC Base of tongue, (TISN0M0) laser surgery, 10/01 and 05/03 no clear margins. Radial free flap graft to tonsil pillar, partial glossectomy, left neck dissection 08/04