Dear Oatty,

I an truly sorry you have to endure Joe's attitude. I went through most of the emotions Gary mentioned. It takes some more time than others. I have no anger towards anyone. I say, I Love You to my wife and adult children everytime we end a phone call etc. I will control what I can but "What Will Be, Will Be"

I have adopted Brian's goal of getting Oral Cancer as well known as breast, prostate and lung cancer. Early detection is the key!!!If I can prevent one person from getting this hidieous diease I will. I intend to have an impact on getting the word out in and around Wisconsin.

I'm sure that Joe doesn't mean to hurt you and your family. He seems like he needs to talk with someone who can break that barrier he has up. I'll bet it's pretty thin.

My thoughts and prayers are with you, Dan