Christine,
My heart goes out to you and to Scott. You are in my prayers. We are almost to the end of an 8 week chemo/rad treatment and it's been so hard. And yet it seems harder to wait and see what the tests show as Dan has a very aggressive cancer that could not all be gotton to during surgery.

It's so hard for all of us. Dan and I have been married for 28 years this June, and hearing your story makes me so glad for all the years we have had together. It's not been easy, but we made it this far and we thought this would be our time when kids are finally making their own lives. Sure never expected this...Dan is 48 and I am 46. Things like this you never expect especially not at this age, although some here are even much younger.

Take care and keep us posted!
Debbie

Debbie - Caregiver for husband, Dan, diagnosed with tongue cancer 7/03. Partial gloss., mod. neck dissections, graft. Recurrence neck tumor 12/03. Radical left neck dissection 12/24/03-unable to get all the tumor. 8 weeks chemo/rad beginning 1/12/04.