Betty
Do what you feel is right.. I find that I need more comfort than I would ever of thought... But remember this take some time for yourself.. just a few minutes off somewhere for a coffee will do.. It is so important that the care giver takes special care of themselves too.
Sunshine.. love and hugs
Helen

SCC Base of tongue, (TISN0M0) laser surgery, 10/01 and 05/03 no clear margins. Radial free flap graft to tonsil pillar, partial glossectomy, left neck dissection 08/04