Carol: Don't rule out re-radiation! There are others here who can tell you more about their personal experiences!
I am so sorry to hear of your diagnosis. Do let us help you get through this difficult time!

Lois & Buzz in NC

CG to 77 y/o hubby;SCC Alveolar Ridge; Wake Forest Baptist Hosp surgery: 07/19/07; bi mod radical resection/jaw replacement;
T2 N2-B M0 Stage IV-A
28 IMRT +
6 Paclitaxel/Carboplatin
Getting stronger every day!