hey yall its been a while since i have been here but i think im in trouble i have a open sore on my tounge, about twice the size of the sore when they found the first to be cancer in the same place its been there now for a month or so and appears to be getting deeper and wider, i am two years out of treatment from the first but now im scared its back, right side of my neck and tounge and my head by my right ear and my right shoulder and arm hurt like crazy, cant eat much due to the pain, i stay tired all the time im going to the doc today i hope and if it is cancer again to be honest im not sure i can handle it again as the first go around cost me losing my wife she said she couldnt handle seeing me going thur it again if it ever came back so much for love huh i reckon i really dont know what to do at this point and time i dont want to talk to my family about it right now and it is hard sometimes to keep it together just curious as to the treatment i went thur the first time with 7.2 rads and the damange that was done weather or not that is even a option i guess the unknown is the worst part,has anyone every made it thur a second go around of oral cancer and could anyone tell me the general outcome of a second round of this stuff i know before i let them do anything im going to have them check me from head to toe to see if it is anywhere else i just dont wont to go thur all this and it be somewhere else and just turn around and come back yet again, well i guess i have cried on yalls shoulders long enough
