Leena,
Sorry to hear of your recent surgery and the death of your father.

My dad was Finnish also, I am half Finn, and if your dad was as stoic as mine was he is probably saying in a slow and deliberate way..."Now Leena, you take care of yourself and know I am fine." He came to my mom in a dream, met her in the middle of a meadow, to tell her he was ok after he passed away in 1994. He had Parkinson's and it was such a pleasure for her to see him walking through the meadow unhindered.

Wow, I don't know where all that came from, but my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sincerely,
Lisa