Hi Marica.. Yep.. DO NOT like plan B.. got lots of questions when I go back.. mainly how long in the hospital and how long before I can talk even a bit..My Mum will be there for John but she's 80 so I don't want her to have to do to much.. hope the family will help.. he's not going to cope I may just run away and hide.. If he can't manage I can't do this.. Don't get me wrong for a blind guy he's good I get tea in bed and he helps a lot around the house.. he vacs I dust.. but he needs help with hot meals and sorting his clothes and he is going to be bored out of his mind while I'm in hospital... don't know what to do about that one.. may just scream LOUD....
Thanks for your prayers and concern
love and hugs
Helen