Thank you for your responses. Everything about this has seemed like one rapid decision after another...And more than a few mixed messages. (For instance, Oncologist says "You are a good candidate for cure" then we are whisked to social worker who tells us about hospice.?!")


Caregiver to father,Frank -Tonsil SCC spread to base of tongue 2 lymph, T2N2M0 stage 4a, IMRT 35x, Erbitux 8x-stopped after 5 due to thrush infection and strp infection in PEG,diag Aug 07 tx concluded Nov 8 07 PEG issues Inpatient Oct 8th-Nov 8th.