Such good thoughts you've received with the above posts. Ultimately, as Wayne says, this IS about you and it's important to do what you feel is best and most helpful to you. It is OK to have some compassion for yourself (it's not self-pity!). I'm sure your fianc


Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)