Dinah, have to agree with you, that wimp came across pretty harsh sounding, but knowing Gary, as well as myself, with both tend to say what we think, which I think has gotten us both in hot water from time to time. As Mandi said in a previous post, we tend to interpret the written word, so you can interpret wimp with anger or being said with true love and concern. We all come onto this Board like injured birds, and sometimes we feel like we`ve been wacked in the head.........Myself, I just found cold turkey the easiest way for me, but as you said whatever gets you through it.........there is a new approach, a plastic cigarette to suck on...in my opinion, lollypops are better........all of you who remember, it worked for Kojack........Hugs, Dee