How very right you are, Gary. You really have to want to quit. It`s the same as going to rehab because you have t, not because you want to......usually, in my experience if you do it for others it doesn`t work.....It`s like fighting any other demon, it`s either you or the demon comes out on top, and our Higher Power, whatever we choose to call it,really is on our side.I`ve got the one day at a time to one one breath at a time..........there are so many addictions that people don`t realize they have.....food, TV, shopping, I could go on and on........maybe everyone could profit from The Blue Book, I know I`ve been through it several times, as always you`re right on target.........Dee