I do agree with you but I do think there could be some benefits to finding out this link, if not for our situation, than for others in the future. It could be an opportunity to help out research as well. I have always lived in fear knowing that my cancer came on so quickly and to know that it could easily happen again. Now I have 2 people to worry about (myself and my husband) and would like to be able to avoid these worries with our future children. The unknowns are so vast and I think that if we can help contribute to the research that we may be able to help others prevent this from happening to them. To have two rare occurences fall with in a same family must be valuable in some way to gaining further knowledge into this issue. I take it from the way that you stated it that you were HPV positive? How did you go about getting tested?

Don't worry, I am definitely there for my husband and have tried not to let him see any of these additional concerns that I have. I want him to stay focused on the main issue at hand, and that is fighting this disease. It has actually been very beneficial that I have been through this and know all the necessary steps in approaching treatment and the many questions to ask.