Thank you all, Dinah I know that you do not know but Dee is not my mother, she has been my dads girlfriend for about 15 or 16 years,I know that you did not know and that is ok, but I just wanted to let everyone know that she is not my mother, thank you all for your reply's, we are going to start on the arrangements today, I just found out last night,he lived in Maine and I am in PA, so I have to start on things today. I will let everyone know when everything will be. Thank you. Packer66 little girl.