I am sorry to ask about death when all here are fighting for life. You are all amazing warriors and I hope you can forgive me. My loved one wants no treament. I read a lot about treatments, and how terribly difficult they are, not so much about what to expect about disease progression, and palliative care for someone not receiving curative treatment. Is adequate pain management possible? Nutrition when he can no longer eat? Please tell me everything I should know to help make him as comfortable as possible.