I’ve never had the biopsy done or went back for a follow up. I can’t bring myself to do it...I don’t want to lose half my tongue, be financially wrecked, and potentially die. I just don’t have it in me. It doesn’t hurt me, it never has. It does concern me that it seems to have surrounding redness more often than not but there is no bump or lump, just a flat white spot. At this point, I will probably wait until it causes an issue before I deal with it. The outcome seems pretty bad either way so why put myself through hell before I need to. I realize how irrational that all sounds but I’m terrified and I don’t have a support system and I need to work to support my kids...