Hubby was just diagnosed with base of tongue squamous cell HPV p16. It's been 40 years since I'd been with another man. He swears he's never been with someone other than me. Can it really lie dormant 40+ YEARS before rearing its ugly head? Hubby is so angry with me for "giving" this to him. How was I to know that being with someone in my 20's would lead to this now? Is it possible to be in there so long? Also, can we ever get past his being so angry at me? Thanks for listening and hoping for the best here...