Thank you everyone for your support and guidance.

We had a weekend away together where we had fun, dined out, did things as a couple on holiday.
We talked a little bit about my cancer whilst we were away but decided to wait until we were home, where we talked quite openly about our worries, fears and stresses. That's really helped clear a lot of unsaid, overthinking stuff.

He has a friend staying with him for a day, whilst I'm in hospital having surgery, so that he's not on his own. This is a massive weight off of my mind because he has arranged this on his own.

The first few days I'm out of hospital he's completely booked off of work, which is great, then my Mum is coming over for a few days as he's going away for a couple of days for work (sadly unavoidable) and then I'll have both hubster and Mum for a day or 2. Then a friend is coming over to help when Mum goes back. So I'm feel quite looked after and so is he

We're away this weekend with some friends, which will be great as it'll just continue to help us both unwind further.

Thank you everyone. You have all been so helpful xx