haha Christine! you get what i deal with!

yeah advice or info out of my mouth seems to be quite useless to him. I do hope they get him on the road to healing. I was eating dinner the other night and he stood right in front of me cleaning it out. YUCKO. anyway, i'm ready for it to heal too!

He has been pretty good about not lifting heavy stuff. i, on the other hand, who has always been a weakling in the upper arm department, have become quite strong for the first time in my life due to having to take care of things because there was no one else to do it. I suppose that's not all bad.

anyway, thanks to all the responses. it is always appreciated and welcomed.

Last edited by ConnieT; 04-11-2019 02:35 PM.

Spouse of 56 yr old with BOT cancer
Stage 4a HPV16 positive
3 chemo treatments cisplantin
35 radiation treatments 7000 cGy
former smoker/chewed tobacco for 38 yrs.