Hi Rosie,
I just wanted to take the time to thank you for your continuing participation in the forum especially knowing that it must be very painful at times. You have a gift of dealing with the really tough subjects that frankly leave some of us speechless and pondering our own futures.
My church has been praying for you and Cati for some time now and we think of Heather, you and her often.
Heather and Cati's picture was shown during a message in October at my church and Dave (the pastor) was so struck by putting a face on cancer and it's consequences, that he spoke of the anger he has from the world taking things away, like Heather in a message about the 8th commandment (thou shalt not steal).
If you would like to hear it go to:
http://www.crosswindschurch.org/text/services/msg_woc.htm select-10/15/03 "The Eight Commandments"
God bless you (and Cati)