"OCF Canuck" Senior Member (100+ posts) Joined: Sep 2013 Posts: 105 | My husband felt completly vulnerable and we became even more dependent on each other. He felt he was given a second chance after surgery but the period of time directly after was brutal. Breathing, swallowing, tubes tangled even bathroom issues, everything was a fight. He doesn't clearly remember it all but came out determined. The radiation on his neck was very aggressive and for that he has pain and tightness as well as a tendency to get infections. We are both still very exhausted three years on and slowly finding our way back to a fulfilling life. Surviving cancer and living with the residual effects changes everything, but we both keep searching for a new happy.
husband 61@diagnosis painter 6/9/13 Exophylic invasive SCC IV(ext.gingivobuccal) 3cm+ mandibular/lytic/erosion, jugular/node9mmshort-axis 17/9/13 Dx(moderately aggressive) 24/10/13 left madiblectomy, mod radical neck disct, leg flap, NGtube 2/01/14 (30 tx)rads 60gy N2b (2nodes under jaw) (rem. in tiny nerves) (rem. 30 nodes) Clear margin, close 2mm inner cheek 15/05/14 cellulitis 3/12/14 Chest CT Clear 27/02/15 cellulitis 8/6/15 cellulitis 10/6/15 Osteomyelitis
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