 Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 | You certainly deserve to vent and we are here to listen! Please try not to compare to others here, everyone is different and has their own unique experiences, successes and areas of concern. Even the OC patients/survivors who seem to sail right thru have some medical problems. Maybe they are better at not showing them? I dont know, but, I do know that everyone here understands where you are coming from and we all sympathize what you are going thru.
You are 100% correct... ITS NOT FAIR!!! Its not always easy either. Hang in there and enjoy your time with your friends.
ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive  | 
