Hi Minnie and Tizz...if only I knew a bit more I could tell you exactly where I am at. I was diagnosed in a small town (Whangarei) here in NZ, but everything has to be done in Auckland, so I was officially discharged from my local hospital last week. Went for CT scans and x rays last week as well. I havent seen the specialist yet - so I only have an outline of what to expect. So my short term goal at the moment is to ensure my little girl is cared for, she is lucky to have three parents

, so I shouldnt have to much to worry about.
All of you people certainly sound like you have been through the mill. I understand completely when you say you are a better person for it.
I will be thinking of you on Daffodil day Tizz - I hope you have a blast.
Hopefully I can let you know where I am soon..and it all isnt too much to take in.
Thanks for your thoughts...Karyn