Karyn, It helped us to have a notebook and a small calendar with us at all times once John was diagnosed. I wrote down every date for every scheduled test, etc. and kept a running list of questions to ask each Doc. we saw. Then I would get on this site at night and read and write down more questions. It helps alot to keep your mind focused on understanding the language of cancer treatment and being able to ask good questions. Best of luck as you get going. Amy