Thank you guys, your stories are sad, and helpful and hopeful to me. I found out it's not superficial and it spread to my lymph nodes. I have a cat scan ordered for Thursday at 8 and then we meet our dr an hour later.
He wants to check my neck and lungs. I had bronchi soaps and asthma back in January and was on steroids for weeks. My asthma is better. The singular I was taking have me hives so I stop taking that. I breathe very well and had no issues no far.
I visited my pc doctor and he just reassured me I was in good hands. I been praying a lot and it's the only thing that gives me any sense of peace. I was told it might be stage one or two. But from what I read is that of you need log nodes removed it's stage 3. So I sit and wonder, why did my eNt dr say that to me?
He said we may just be able to cut out the cancer, left side oft tongue, savaroma type he said, most common kind, and maybe do radio/chemo.
Do they sugar coat things? Beginning to wonder here.
Anyhow, I find out everything on Thursday morning. I starting to get anxiety feelings which scare me cause I have been to the er a lot in the last fir full blown anxiety attacks.
I been told it's 5mm or 1/5 of an inch.
Anyhow, thank you all for posting, when I am grounded here, I can get on my phone puter and respond more and in detail in an individual way.
Right now, I am trying to stay offline as much as possible, to much info is not helping me!

Kimberly