My husband has been chewing beetlenut for almost 20 years now. For those who dont know its a type of south asian chewing tobbacco. About 4 or 5 Months ago he developed a sore inside his mouth that did not go away. I kept pestering him to go get it checked but he didnt. Then about 3 weeks ago a lump developed in his cheek. We went to an oral surgeon and a biopsy was done and we were told yesterday it is cancer in the squamous cell. No staging done and just told lots of appointments to come. I am worried and stressed. Any advise would be useful. thanks