I understand about the nagging issue. My 31-year-old husband was diagnosed with SCC back in November 2013. We've been together 8 years, but the only thing I've ever nursed him back from was a bad flu. This is so much more difficult--trying to get him to swallow his meds, go to the dentist, eat, drink, and do his swallowing exercises. I do feel like a nag, and I feel guilty that I get so easily upset with him sometimes. It's hard when the other person is in pain or feeling bad and is cranky to you. Plus my husband is a doctor himself, so I love arguing with him about doing all of this! You're not alone in feeling like this and I hope he feels better soon. I know they appreciate us more than we could ever know.