Terri
I just wanted to welcome you to the board, there are not many questions I feel I can help you with right now but , as your journey progresses and you are able to find out exactly whats`s what we are here.
Your Dad is going to need help from someone .. and your Grandmother obviously cannot do it .
My daughter came from England to help me as I was exhausted trying to manage on my own.
My husband was the same, very reluctant to tell the kids the whole story , he did not want to worry them. Just a Dad trying to protect his kids .
Let us know how you get on Terri, make him talk to you !
Take Care
MArica