Oh Cindy, I am so sorry to read this. Life is just not fair.
But, keep placing one foot after the other. Take one day at a time .
Get the PET done. Get the treatment plan and push on. You can do this. Take a deep breath. You can do this.
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers,
Tammy

Caregiver/advocate to Husband Kris age 59@ diagnosis
DX Dec '10 SCC BOT T4aN2bM0 HPV+ve.Cisplatin x3 35 IMRT.
PET 6/11 clear.
R) level 2-4 neck dissection 8/1/11 to remove residual node - necrotic with NED
Feb '12 Ca back.. 3/8/12 total glossectomy/laryngectomy/bilat neck dissection/partial pharyngectomy etc. clear margins. All nodes negative for disease. PEG in.
March 2017 - 5 years disease free. Woohoo!