Hi Cindy,

You've been thru way too much already, and I agree this just isn't fair.

The node may not be cancer, but you know the only way to confirm or rule out is a biopsy. I understand your concerns and it is a tough decision to make. Perhaps seek out another opinion at a different hospital?

IF it is cancer, it is probably better to remove it now than waiting.

I've been to a number of different doctors and hospitals, and at times it was suggested that I wait and see and retest in 3 months. That was really tough, but I did it and the Pet Scan showed there was nothing. I truly hope that is what happens in your case.

Your finance sounds like a gem. Use him for support and discuss your options with him. Your OCF family is here for you also.

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. (((HUGS)))