Thank you Deborah! I had read your post about your father also! I know with Tim that he isn't understanding all of the medical information being given to him, so he isn't conveying information to his family (only two daughters) very effectively. I will follow your posts, and I wish for you strength and some peace as you progress through this with your father.

Caregiver to Tim(Best friend and love of my life)55 years young!!
Small BOT SCC (HPV+) with mets to 2 large and 1 "cluster" of right neck lymph nodes. DX 7/2013
Treatment started 8/2013. Completed 10/9/2013 IMRT 70GY over 31 days X2. Cisplatin X3 No PEG.
PET Scan 1/15/2014 NO Evidence of Disease
5/18/2015 NED with follow up visits to oncologist and Radiation oncologist every 3 months.
Cautiously Optimistic and starting on the journey to recovery!