What a delicate balance you have to try to manage. I am so sorry that you are being faced with so many "what if" decisions. I am glad you are seeking another appointment and hopefully they will have some new information for you. You sound very well organized for me, and I know you are being the very best David you can be - the loving caring supportive husband that you are. Hugs. How I wish this was so different for you two.

Donna

Donna,69, SCC L Tongue T2N1MO Stg IV 4/04 w/partial gloss;32 radtx; T2N2M0 Stg IV; R tongue-2nd partial gloss w/graft 10/07; 30 radtx/2 cispl 2/08. 3rd Oral Cancer surgery 1/22 - Stage 1. 2022 surgery eliminated swallowing and bottom left jaw. Now a “Tubie for Life”.no food envy - Thank God! Surviving isn't easy!!!! .Proudly Canadian - YES, UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE IS WONDERFUL! (Not perfect but definitely WONDERFUL)