There have been studies that proven the best outcomes will be with patients who are treated at a top cancer center. Its where they attract the brightest doctors and are up to date with all the newest technology and treatment protocols.

As far as a doctor who has the personal touch, that can be found anywhere. Nice doesnt mean they will cure the cancer.

Choose very carefully, but dont take too much time in making that decision. Getting rid of the cancer needs to be done as soon as possible. Oral cancer can be a very aggressive, fast moving cancer. By treating it quickly, hopefully it will be at a lower stage so its easier to treat.

Your mother will need a caregiver for at least 3 months depending upon the treatment plan. This type of cancer isnt a walk in the park like some other more commonly known cancers. I dont mean to scare you but it can be a pretty rough go for some, then you have others who will sail right thru. She may not feel up to a pool or the gym for a while, plus her blood count numbers could be low which means she needs to avoid public places. That is very common with cancer patients. At the very least, round someone up to check on her daily and who will provide her transportation. If she is planning on driving herself, that will probably need to be changed so its best to be prepared. By planning for the worst, when its not so bad that can be a nice surprise. Im positive being a caregiver for a parent can be challenging at times but she will need someone who is with her or I am 100% sure she will have a difficult time of it.

Where You Are Treated

Best wishes!


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile