Everyone is different, and your husband may not like the whole blogging idea, I didn't pre-cancer, even though I had a computer since 1995, I never blogged, and did not belong to any cancer sites when I was diagnosed, although I knew they existed by my short research. I did not, actually wasn't, able to join any until a year after my diagnosis, and initial treatment in 2009, and it was limited to another site, to share my experiences, and usually not the type to ask for advise. I just joined here last July. Eventually, your husband may join to share his experience too, help others, after he completes treatment.