I was the one who told that woman to "hit him upside the head" if reading all of our posts didn't work. Sounds like the husband may be in denial.

It upsets me because we have lost too many warriors who fought with everything possible and just ran out of time and lost the battle. They would have been happy to have more time for more treatments.

DX 12/6/10 of T3 SCC Tongue.
Surgery 1/3/11 was hemigloss & forearm free flap, midline mandibulectomy, Neck Disection-All nodes clear.
Ended rads 5/11/11. Taste buds back to about 80%. PEG removed 4/5/12, experimenting eating real food again. If I can do this, so can you !! Stay Strong.